I used to stalk a married man and now I hate him - should I confront him?

and tell him exactly how I feel NOW? Should I tell him about all my previous stalking? Shoud I confront his wife and tell her too? I am really mad at him for ignoring me. I don't like him anymore and I don't want to stalk him, but I do want closure. Any suggestions?

I used to stalk a married man and now I hate him - should I confront him?
send him naked pictures of yourself and show him what he missed.
Reply:Honey, you need to get some serious psychological counseling because you're still in prime stalker mode, it's written all over your question.


He doesn't care how you feel, he doesn't want to hear from you or about your stalking which I'm sure he is already well aware and if you confront his wife they will likely get a restraining order against you and report you to the police. What you want doesn't matter; what he wants is for you to leave hum and his wife alone. If you pursue this you will regret it, trust me.
Reply:What do you want closure from? You don't need to tell him anything. You have no right to be mad. You are not the victim. The victims are the family you just tried to ruin. Leave him alone don't confront him or his wife because you will look like a fool and cause unessecary drama in other peoples lives. Keep your fantasy world in your head and don't act on it because as you can see it got you no where.
Reply:I think you may still be obsessing over him to be honest. "closure" is just another excuse to contact him. He is ignoring you for a reason. Leave him (and his wife) alone! be honest with yourself, you are not really wanting closure but a continuation of the situation. If you truly did not like him anymore you wouldn't care if he ignored you. Focus on something else, he is not meant for you. And again leave him and his wife alone.
Reply:Do you realize that you can be put in jail for this? If you want him to pay attention to you, then you can force him to, but he'll realize you're stalking him and file charges against you, PLUS a restraining order. Not good for your criminal record now.





Sounds like you're flat out obsessed with him. I seriously recommend a therapist or someone to release all that stress unto. Nobody wins if you keep bothering with him.
Reply:I am married and a woman use to stalk me.


Trust me when I say "Let It Go." Forget the closure.


My stalker did not and she got more than she bargained for when she showed up at my house. My marriage is strong. Incredibly strong. Some people take it as a serious threat when people stalk them. Some people are terrified. We chose to make an example out of her. Some people don't want any problems by other people.


My stalker was terrified and has never bothered us since then.
Reply:You were stalking him?


Charming.


Now you hate him, and want to confront him?


Good grief.....





Look ~ you're the one with the huge pile of issues, not him. Find yourself a good shrink and work it all out, and leave him %26amp; his family the hell alone.
Reply:The only closure you should have is in a Doctor's chair, you are sick Go and get help, what you are doing is sick and very very unhealthy
Reply:No, don't confront him......your best best for revenge is to go on and let it go. I know it's tempting as you are angry and mad/sad, but I'd let it go and never talk to him.......
Reply:Uhhh-- you "used to" be a stalker? Stay away. Keep your mouth shut. There's your closure. He's ignoring you for a reason- go away now.
Reply:Maybe he ignored you because he was/is married?? And what should you tell your wife? "I stalked your husband, but he was faithful to you, so I hate him."
Reply:why would u stalk a married man? stay away from him..even to confront him. confronting them makes it sound like they did something wrong when u were a creepy stalker. leave them alone and stay out of their lives.
Reply:Never approach him or her. Its best that they never know. Just forget him and move on with your life. Your best closure is a better future.
Reply:uh, you can stalk me. i'd love to have a woman chase me!!!!!
Reply:You aren't going to flatter him or make him sorry he missed a "great catch" like you. You'll just freak them both out.
Reply:throw dat corn bread at him den come over here uh and lemme smack yo booty for doin dat!
Reply:Walk away...just keep walking....