Monday, May 11, 2009

How do you tell someone that you don't like them to stalk you and look at all of your stuff without hurting?

This girl, my mom's cousin, she just thinks she owns the place. I don't want to be mean to her, or anything. I just want to tell her to stop bothering me. Like, last time she came, she got on my bed and crawled in. The she decided she wasn't tired and got up to watch TV and flip channels with the remote.

How do you tell someone that you don't like them to stalk you and look at all of your stuff without hurting?
You have to say what you feel. Say to her without swearing or yelling that you don't appreciate her in your room getting into your things. If she puts up a fuss or her feelings get hurt that is her problem. You said it the best way you could and if her feelings are hurt that's too bad. You have to stand up for yourself.
Reply:looks like you'll have to be blunt. "crawled into your bed?", need to stop this NOW. I know it's uncool to suggest this - but talk to your mom.
Reply:simple just tell her you dont like the way she,s intruding in you space
Reply:tell them to get a life


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