Is it true that many people who were adopted stalk their biological family members?

Ha ha. No.

Is it true that many people who were adopted stalk their biological family members?
I don't think they "stalk" them. I would try to find them if I was adopted also because I would want to know who my real parents were.
Reply:Well, I wouldn't say that they stalk but I do know that they try to find them in need of their family background. But if their are some that do stalk I bet that they are just curious.
Reply:Not always, i got a few friends who were adopted but never stalked their biological parents, they went and got the info from the adoption agency and got in contact with their families to get 2 know them and get some answers but never stalked them. Good Luck!
Reply:i dont know ask yourself
Reply:Search for yes, stalk, unsure.
Reply:"Stalk" contains a value judgment. Reportedly, many adoptees DO seek their blood relatives. However, the only adopted person I knew wasn't interested. (Or so he told me.)


(Yes, that's a very small sample from which to draw statistics. But it's the only sample I've got.)
Reply:yep i did it for a few days one time, but then i got over it.
Reply:Hell no!


I am adopted and have wonderful adoptive parents.


There is no need for me to seek my biological parents.





The only thing that intrest me was their health issues. I wanted to be aware of anything that might affect me.





I can see the people that were put into foster care. Or have had a not so good experience with their adoptive parents, seeking their biological family. Or mabey some adopted people are more curious than others and want to seek out who their "real parents" are.





As for me, I'm somewhat intrested but not to the extent of becoming a STALKER! LOL
Reply:I think a more appropriate way of stating it would be they search for their biological family, and they have a right to know where they come from. Of course there will be some that do, but I think they maybe look from afar because they don't know if they will be accepted. It is a pretty big generalization that you make by asking the question like that though.
Reply:Its not true in all cases...


but,some it is..


In the cases where it is yes..


Its the verge in them to know :


why there real parents have abandoned them and left them to face the society by themselves without anyone to moral and elderly support..?


and why they had to give birth to an unwanted child and leave to misery for the rest of the life...?


These are some of the reasons why adopted people try stalking their biological family members...
Reply:lol --I don't think so. I'm sure it happens, but I'm also sure it is very uncommon. Probably the same odds as having just a random person stalk you.
Reply:Im adopted and there is a curiosity there about who they were


but to stalk people stems from a deep insecurity and a obsessional quality of needing to know as in it invades all your thoughts which means you need psychological guidance
Reply:would you stalk your lost pet? or a family member? stalking is where you know where they live and watch their every move with out telling them. looking for a lost love or animal is not stalking. your have a right to know where they arewho your parents are. beside they too could be looking for their lost love that they gave away. depending on them or you.
Reply:Stalk, as in the lurking in the shadows to watch them? You don't have to be adopted to do that? Most adopted will seek out their parents/family. If they are rejected by them then an individual who has not got a healthy adoptive family might.
Reply:I do not believe that is true.


But sometimes the biological family will try to find out about the ones that adopted the child.


They wonder where the child went, and how they are doing.


When a child gets old enough, they might want to see if they look like the biological parents, that is, if they were told that they were adopted.


I was not told until I was a teenager.
Reply:Sometimes, but most of the time, yes.
Reply:No, it's just a silly myth. But they make up Lifetime Television for Women movies about that.
Reply:I don't think that "stalk" is a good word to use. I think that those who are adopted just want to find a way to reconnect to their biological family and try to learn more about them.