I recently had a woman stalk me, how do you deal with that, without hurting their feelings?

It is odd that the people you love the most, will walk away from you, leaving your heart in tattered and torn pieces, and those people that are psychotic, with multiple personalities, all of which are frightening in themselves, by the way, will focus all of their obsessive desires on you. Hey that is a good question all to itself, isn't it? Just kidding, but a true statement....

I recently had a woman stalk me, how do you deal with that, without hurting their feelings?
You have to be real and that's gonna hurt her feelings!


"I'm moving on and so should you" tell her that.


Don't lead her on cause you could end up getting stab or shot. Depending on what part of the country she's from.


FEMALES IN THE SOUTH SHOT YOU%26gt;


FEMALES IN THE NORTH STAB YOU.


watch your back.
Reply:Just thought I would add, that someone had busted down my door before work one morning, the police suspect that it might have been a member of her family, and they didn't think I was home at the time, my concern grew. I had changed my locks just prior to that. Report It

Reply:wow i wish i had a stalker of my own lol Report It

Reply:No you don't... I would rather have had Darryl Hannah stalk me, but no such luck. I don't mean to trivialize, but I try to see the humor in things, than let them get me down, so I try to joke a bit about it. But really, you don't want a stalker Report It

Reply:It is very important that you DO hurt their feelings. Being gentle gives them the the ammunition to continue their self-deception believing that you really do love them or at least that there's a chance that you might grow to love them. Be cruel and let them know that there is nothing less attractive in the whole world than a woman stalker. If this doesn't work, contact the police. Good luck.
Reply:A police report won't hurt their feelings...do not act by yourself..so be firm with them, if u don't they'll act beyond what u expected. it's a cruel world honey..
Reply:If she is stalking you then there is nothing on earth you can say that won't hurt her feelings if you tell her you don't want her. Firm but gentle is the best approach, backed up by a legal document if need be!


Good luck
Reply:Stalkers are dealt with in one way, tell them to f off, simple and sweet. That don't work go buy yourself a baseball bat and show them what it looks like from a distance, that don't work go to the cops.
Reply:Don't worry about hurting their feelings cause if you don't, they won't leave.
Reply:You might have to hurt her feelings to get your point across.You are dealing with a stalker here.Their feelings is way out there to begin with.However i do understand what you are saying and it would be great if you could sit this person down and explain that you have no interest in them what so ever and it needs to stop,but people that are infatuated with another seem to not comprehend when stop or no means just that.You are going to have to be firm and direct.Best wishes to you!
Reply:well so long as you never led her on in any way, then i'd be a bit worried. tell her to leave you alone. your not interested.if that doesn't work, call the police.
Reply:Just avoid to meet them, then they will look for another 'victims'
Reply:If you really need her off your back, consider a restraining order. I've included a link to Find Law, if you need a lawyer. Let the law take care of it, they'll rule in your favor.
Reply:did she have a cane,wheelchair or walker?
Reply:show ur interest they will run away .. female like getting attention ..if u try to ignore them u will add the fuel .. be polite n gentle .. n be only friendly

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