Why do alot of people seem to stalk me?

im 16 , girl.








right now i hvae another stalker...hes this really really old guy. and he won't leave me alone.





ive had like 4 other stalkers too. and they are all crazy








why do some people hvae a bunch of stalkers, and some people never have that problem??





i dont get it.


i always have a stalker. it suks.

Why do alot of people seem to stalk me?
The problem with stalkers is that they are usually men suffering from low self-esteem or some other mental issues. Usually they pick girls that seem easy for them to attain, such as girls with low self-esteem, or shy girls. your appearance does not hold as much in these cases because they see you as a target.


I suggest you see a counselor to help you with any issues that may be what these creeps are picking up. They see you as venerable or week, that they can pick you off and isolate you from others.


Also the messages that you send to these guys may be a little mixed. I would be careful around older men, and use your instincts. If your gut says be careful around "this guy" listen to that. I am not saying be mean or rude, just be more guarded, and less open.





Be careful Honey. Most stalkers are harmless, but there are that small percentage that are dangerous.
Reply:I had one stalker when I was 16 (he was a really old guy), I told some of my closest friends (mostly guys) and they fixed the problem for me. My best friend has 2 or 3 stalkers right now (I can't keep up with them, once she convinces one to leave her alone she gets another) and they are on a rotation, I keep telling her to change her routine (they can't follow her if they don't know where she is) and to dump the friends that keep introducing her to stalkers (I know that's harsh but if it keeps her safe its necessary). If you have certain people who keep introducing you to the stalkers maybe you should try to figure out why, maybe they are not your real friends. Try to make some guy friends, or make friends with your friends brothers (if a guy sees you as his sister it will be in his very nature to try to protect you, its the whole caveman/tribe thing). good luck!
Reply:This is unusual.Are you sure you are not paranoid?Maybe you should talk to a Therapist.
Reply:methinks they want something you don't want to give them
Reply:Are you hot? Maybe they like you. If not, CALL THE FREAKIN POLICE!!! They maybe are trying to do something that you would not like. Seriously.
Reply:Because you're so special of course.
Reply:You must be really hot. Guys like hot girls. Don't take it personally.